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"Resistance is futile, you will be assimilated"
or so the quote goes.
But something has set me to thinking, what does resistance do?
Does it add spice to a D/s or M/s relationship?
If your sub, or slave or bottom resists, does it make the scene better?
Getting them to submit by overcoming their resistance.
Going that little further and getting a degree of satisfaction in the moment that you have bent another to your will.
Does it make you feel stronger or more "masterful" or "domly" more on the top in your relationships?
With all consent and within a consensual relationship, of course.
Does it make you wonder or think that there are problems within your dynamic?
Is resistance the BDSM equivalent of "dirty pillow talk"?
Is talking back a prospect that gives a Master or Mistress or Top a stress ulcer or does it ramp things up for both parties?
Or is it a case of brattyness or SAMness or disrespect that will cause the one being spoken to to pack up their kitbag and bring out the saddle soap?
As a sub, slave or bottom, if you have the ability to shut yourself down and hold off a requested response until added stimulation is given, is this being "bad" or just making the scene hotter for your Dom, Master, Mistress or Top?
Does resisting occasionally make you feel "happier" within the relationship?
Is the thought process one of, "This person has taken control of me and the situation and is therefore some one worthy of my submission?"
If all you have to do is give a hard look at the toy bag and your plaything is on their back, or whatever, is there ultimately any challenge?
Submission is one thing but having to occasionally go that little further....
Is there any satisfaction in a sub who turns over with no effort from you?
As a sub, slave or bottom, is there satisfaction in just going with the request, every time?
If you are one of those who does, "mouth back" or holds in your response, or makes the Dom, Master, Mistress, Top work for a response, why do you do it and what do you get out of it?
I get the feeling that if it was a battle every time there was a session things would soon become problematic but every now and then it could be a interesting addition to a relationship.
Every BDSM relationship has a different take on what is right for them, as it should be, but one wonders about the differences, and by talking about, recognising and acknowledging the differences, we learn what is possible and what we want and need and just as importantly what we don't want or need.
Sbon
Yesterday I had a fantastic time licking little Brazilian pussy. Girl cummed few times during that meeting. Me too.
Very sweety and tough pussy! Would love eat it for hours.
Below is a copy from my former Mistress - Princess’ Lola article: ‘Serve in tight time’. Every sub/slave needs to learn it by heart.
I am writing each of you a personal note because I know right now times are tough for most of you.. and the worst part is you can't quench your massive thirst for Me with out funds so here are some ways for you to tighten your tithe and life overall to continue to serve Me through these tough economic times.
The bad economy is only going to be short term.. don't stop training and amusing Me because you can only give $5 instead of $50..
Here are some really great ideas to conserve and save funds for Me or just to stay afloat..
1. Set a budget for yourself and if you can't come to Me and I will set one for you.. hehe
2. Brown bag your lunch
3. Collect coke and pepsi soda rewards for Me out of garbages or your home.
4. Collect cans to recycle
5. Only serve Me
6. Use public transportation instead of your car, park it if you can notify your insurance company
7. Ride a bike instead of using public or private transportation
8. Turn all lights off that you aren't using
9. Unplug all electrical items that aren't in use
10. Keep your thermostat at 68 degrees in the winter (65 degrees if you live alone)
11. Use spit when you jerk your sticklette instead of lube
12. Shower only 3 times a week to save water and electricity heating the water
13. Go to freegrabber.com to sign up for samples tampons, pads, shampoo, food, condoms and tons of other things
14. Get your local paper and cut coupons or get allyou at walmart (full of coupons and household tips)
15. Cut grooming costs where ever you can
16. Fill up a plastic water bottle and place in the back of your toilet to conserve water
17. ebay unused items around the house
18. List your used sissy items for sale at STBC (free listings)
19. Cancel all paid membership sites online no matter what they are (unless it's some sort of payment for Me..)
20. Dont drive unless you have to
21. Start saving now for My birthday in May!!!
22. Give up one thing that costs you money regularly (smoking, drinking, dining out, clothes, movie, cable and entertainment costs that aren't Me are just a few examples)
23. Weather proof your house with plastic on the windows
24. Shut doors and vents to rooms you don't use or don't use often
25. Buy bulk groceries when they are on sale, not only when you want them
26. Shop discount stores like target or walmart for everyday items
27. Get a paper route
28. Get a part time fast food job
29. Don’t pay for internet porn, there's too many free sites now
30. Start taking gay phone sex calls on niteflirt and join My group fetishesgalore · Fetish Girl.
31. eat one meal a day instead of 3
32. do your own laundry instead of taking to laudry mat.
And of course to keep you all thinking positive a brand new HOT pic of Me.
Pay your small penis tax by the last day of each month!!
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